Cheap and Easy Halloweens of Yore

Last Halloween, as I stood at my door giving out Reese’s peanut butter cups (Reese’s were the ultimate Halloween candy in my heyday, unlike candy corn…blech), I noticed that the costumes the children donned all seemed fairly elaborate. The princess was fully decked out from head to toe, as was the little race-car driver.

When I was a kid, it was all about the candy. The costume was just a necessary step to feed our sweet tooth. So while it was fun dressing up, it was scaled down by today’s standards.

For several years, I was a cheerleader. Why? Because I actually was a cheerleader. The costume was readily available and cute and still allowed me to knock on people’s door and demand my treat.

Ghosts, of course, were the easiest of all. Throwing on an old sheet and cutting a few holes in it screamed of simplicity. A matching pillowcase could be used to collect the goodies. In short, your entire costume was on your bed…how easy was that?

And then there were bums, which you don’t see much of these days because of its political incorrectness, I guess. But bums were all the rage back in the day. Messy, beat-up clothes, an old hat and a burnt cork were used to create that “I haven’t shaved in weeks” stubble.

Interestingly, as I got older, costuming became too much of an art form. I lived in San Francisco for many years and Halloween would fill me with a sense of dread…. how could you possibly compete with the elaborate costumes that people planned for months in advance? It felt less like Halloween and more like the Academy Awards.

This Halloween, I’ll probably be a witch…again. (Another easy-as-pie costume). And it fits my personality better with each passing year. [Insert cackle here.]

What were some of your favorite Halloween costumes over the years? What about the easiest Halloween costumes? The cheapest? The strangest?

This Halloween, send a loved one of our many Halloween ecards. And boo to you all!

Can Dads Mop Floors?

The Rolling Biker Dogs, one of the cards we make for Dads’ Birthdays.

Do dads ever tend to children or clean the house? According to television and other media, they rarely do.

Just once I’d like to hear a father tell the camera that he’s concerned about Billy’s nagging cough. Or hear dad explain why Swiffers make housecleaning that much easier. But men are always relegated to the couch, watching football, making Homer Simpson style remarks. And moms are dutifully in the kitchen preparing that healthy dinner in just 15 minutes!

In real life, I know several dads who have moved well beyond couches and football. My friend Chris, for example, is raising his 10 year-old daughter single handed and can cook better than I can any day of the week. His house is always in order and when his daughter is sick, he knows exactly what to do.

Conversely one of my female friends coaches the boy’s soccer team and couldn’t make a bowl of oatmeal if her life depended on it. She encourages athletics first and foremost and would much prefer being outdoors and not tending to tile grout or whatever she’s “supposed” to do.

I wonder when the ad agencies will ever move beyond those simplified roles that we’re pigeonholed into. Since they haven’t changed that much since the 1950’s, it seems like high time.

If you have a multi-faceted father with a birthday coming up, show him how much you appreciate all of the ways he contributes to his life with our birthday ecards for dad.

The Sometimes Serious Definition of Funny

Here at Doozy, we pride ourselves on knowing “funny.” Humor is part of our job, after all. But defining what is and isn’t funny can get pretty serious! Some comedy crosses over and reaches just about everybody while certain types of humor can easily offend other people.

Some friends and I had a lively discussion about this very topic a few nights ago over lunch. A friend said over dessert, “I saw Saturday Night Live a few nights ago and could barely get through it. There was a skit about a drunken uncle and I found it offensive and very unfunny. Drunk is never funny.”

Everyone nodded in head in agreement…except for me.

“But there’s a long history of funny people who have acted drunk. What about WC Fields? Dudley Moore? Foster Brooks?”

“They’re not funny, really. I mean, to me, they aren’t.”

“And what about Eddie Murphy when he plays his drunken dad at a cookout? That’s 100% pure comedy.”

“Not to me.”

And to each his or her own. At Doozy, we think funny is in the eye of the beholder. But I couldn’t help but wonder whether as a society we require overly sanitized comedy for the sake of political correctness…and political correctness just isn’t that funny! Comedy should be on the edge. It should make us slightly uncomfortable at times.

Ultimately comedy serves as a form of relief for the pains and ills in life. (It’s a fine line between laughter and tears, after all.) And I do think it shouldn’t have to adhere to the same societal rules we usually live by day to day…when it does, it has a tendency to fall flat.

Here in the Doozy Cards World Humor Headquarters, funny is our daily bread. If you’re looking to make someone in your life smile, take a look at our wide selection of funny ecards.

The hilarious cow ecard from “Rubes” by Leigh Ruben, featured in our “Funny eCards” category. Ah Youth!

Here’s a link to that hilarious (IMHO) Eddie Murphy video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lW0iMUyudeI

Fall Rituals for the Fast-paced Human

“Days decrease and Autumn grows, Autumn in everything.”  ― Robert Browning

It’s that time of the year when the leaves brighten and fall earthward, the air turns crisp, and kids trudge back to school in their new duds. And while it’s not New Year’s, there’s an aspect of Fall that feels ripe with renewal.

Back in the day, people ritualized the changing of the seasons. Now, we all seem too busy, too disconnected. But hope is not lost; you can create your own modern-day rituals to mark this rich season.

Harvest something. Autumn has marked harvest season for eons. So what if you don’t have a farm or even a garden? What about jarring some jelly or making a heaping pot of stew? Why not visit a local farm and feel that glorious sensation of plenty? Buy some local produce and create a dinner for friends, where the food abounds and wine pours. (Don’t forget to light a candle and take a moment before the meal to give thanks in whatever way you see fit.)

Dig in the dirt; connect to the land. There’s a reason children feel the need to jump in a leaf pile; it’s a form of connecting up-close to the seasonal changes (and is just plain fun, of course). Connect with the earth during this transitional phase. Clean up the yard, rake the leaves (but please don’t use those annoying leaf blowers…how annoying are those things?), go for a long walk in the woods. Look up to the sky and be thankful for being lucky enough to experience another season on this planet we call Earth.

Go back to school. School never ends…never! What can you learn this season? Autumn marks a time of reflection where your mind opens up and expands with ideas. Take a local class or workshop. Grab a book from the library. Write, reflect. Feed your brain.

Make right with the world. Fall is a time of reflection and clearing. If there are amends that need to be made with a loved one, reach out. Simply the act of trying often shifts a long-held grudge. Clean the slate this Fall. (If it feels too hard to break the ice, write a letter and burn it, letting go of any bad feelings that still may still get in your way.)

Get cozy and comfortable. Nothing says Fall more than that soft, grey sweater or those trusty old boots that fit just right. And don’t forget to add some color to match with the season’s rich shades. (Burgundy is all the rage this season, FYI.) Embrace the colder temperatures with clothes that make you feel lovingly prepared for it.

So yes, our world seems to be moving too fast to stop and mark the seasons properly. But that doesn’t mean you can’t adapt and create rituals that help you celebrate in your own way. Encourage others to do so by sending them our bright, colorful Autumn ecards.

Our Autumn Friendship eCard – because friends keep us warm inside.